Many things are not mentioned in the Bible that are right - and sometimes obviously wrong.
And it has nothing to do with using a dating service in and of itself - but the reason you may be using it.
:) 99% times the motive of a dating site is $$$ (not so with fusion - we do this for love - literally! So what's the point of using Christian dating agencies then? well consider what would happen if you were to sit at home for the rest of your life, not go out to dinner parties, social and Church events.
The fact of the matter is you wouldn't meet anyone of the opposite gender at all with whom you could become friends with perhaps later partner up with.
Extreme as this is - this would be the outcome of not mixing and matching socially, making new friends and generally getting involved in church.
Itis totally unfir to take all your past relationship issues into your new relatonship and expect it not to cause problems.
At the very least - please don't harp on about past ex-es as it's sure to ruin the relationship and put the other person off now or later.
If I need a job, and don't write a CV, don't prepare my skill-set, don't buy a suit and don't apply to the emplyment agency and don't turn up for the interview, chances are I'm going to find it hard to find a job. So when we ask; meaning and it may even mean having to read an entire book.
Probably more importantly though - what kind of person would want to employ such a lazy person who expectsa a perfect job to fall into their lap? The fact is we can make the bible say anything we want it to if we take verses out of context (and verses by the way were not in the original texts which forced people in the past to know their Biblical texts, not pick and choose tem like we do today! The fact is, in today's world, finding a Christian partner can seem a like finding a needle in a haystack.
The question is, where to look, who should I be looking for and should I even be looking in the first place?
Good question since if God is really an all-knowing all-seeing God, then surely he will produce the right person at the right time?