It makes them not want to be in this situation with you and you will find that rejection comes quickly. It affects your movements and speech and most certainly prevents you from displaying the glorious aspects of your relaxed character.It is a viscous circle because the reason often why you will feel fear is because you fear rejection. You are uptight so you can't talk fluently, your words come out all wrong, you don't come across properly.In some circumstances I have seen people come across as aggressive merely because they were frightened of being rejected.
More than anything else, fear when dating will get you off to a bad start.
Your date can sense that you are scared a mile away.
It shows, it comes across and it is hard to disguise.
Fear makes the person on the receiving end feel unattractive and unsteady.
I see a beautiful girl and she is waiting to be approached. However, I would either not approach or if I did it would take me so long that the moment had passed and she could already tell that I was scared.
In a previous article I spelled it out for guys, one of the most attractive qualities in a man is confidence.
You cannot become confident overnight and using drugs and alcohol to assist is a huge mistake.
But something inside us tells us in advance of our actions that we are going to fail.
The girl we approach won't like us and she will reject our advances so we are not sure why we will try, but we will. You can approach and have fun and make light of any situation.