Donning a fake wedding ring to appear married and wearing a summer dress and low heels, I greeted Robert, a 39-year-old events organiser at an outdoor cafe on the South Bank. “The dynamic changed between me and my wife after the children. "I’ve never cheated since the kids came along but I had an odd fling or two with an ex before we married.” So what prompted him to even look for a site like this?
I can’t see if he’s attractive because the top of his head is deliberately chopped out of shot. To find out I set up a fake profile, claiming to be ‘happily married but looking for extra fun’ (a line I copied from others’ profiles).
His photo shows him in a white shirt, leaning against a hotel wall. ” quips another 32-year-old who has posted a photo of his bare torso. Slipping into an affair is bad enough, but who would be so calculated as to go looking?
Waiting for you,” writes 52-year-old John who claims to be an office manager. Men pay £30 a month but it’s free for women to use.
Want to meet attractive woman for occasional afternoon fun.” There were a surprisingly high number of headshots.
A lot of the men were overweight, scruffy and unattractive, but some were handsome. Within 48 hours, I’d arranged to meet three different married men for afternoon coffee.
They all suggested areas near to where they worked in different parts of central London, but none asked which area would be convenient for me.Once we’d established an area, they left it to me to suggest a venue. Each day, the site gets 35,000 visits and 700 new members who are invited to ‘find other adult contacts who enjoy meeting for more passion’. They are among the 600,000 members on website uk, one of a number of adultery sites which guarantee members anonymity.Within minutes I had five messages and as many ‘winks’. Many were looking for ‘dirty chat’ without ever intending to meet me.Others were clearly looking for a one-off notch on the bedpost. Most didn’t reveal their jobs, some didn’t write anything at all while others were upfront – “Married and planning to stay that way.